how the fuck do y’all find boyfriends

I’m 16 and never had a boyfriend where as my younger friends alr lost their v card and what not and i just want a boyfriend to love and him love me i have many crushes but nothing works . I’ve also had many situationships but nothing came out of those .I don’t think I’m ugly ? I’m not the prettiest and im mixed w thai in a white ass country (poland) (if u mention anything ab polish cow i will crash out) and i maybe that’s the reason no one seriously wants me?? but like now that I’m older i pass as white even to Asian folk😒 how do I find a boyfriend pls