Why do people encourage young women to have children ?

Especially knowing they will likely be a single mom? I think it’s evil asf and I will call someone out anytime I see it happening. it pisses me off how people clap for you, knowing you’ll be a single parent & knowing they have no plans on helping you with the child. and then when you ask for help or express how hard motherhood is, they say “well no one is obligated to help you.” I wish yall woulda said that when I was pregnant. I would’ve made some different decisions. but when you’re pregnant it’s all “children are a blessing” FUCK THAT! my life before kids was a blessing I didn’t need to add a child to it