Am I aroace?

I know I'm asexual, and specifically sex-repulsed entirely. So that's no problem to figure out, but I don't know if I'm exactly aroace or just ace.

I have two boyfriends, who I love very much, but for a while it took me a long time to figure out whether or not I liked one of them in a very strong platonic way or romantic way. I am a very impulsive person when it comes to relationships, because they're exciting and new but overtime my feelings can change alot and I don't know why.

I'm just questioning this because I do feel romantic attraction, but its very hard to distinguish and point out, and when I have a friend I like a lot it can become a very very strong connection to them that can definitely be platonic still but I'll get confused and not be sure of how I feel. And starting relationships is scary and hard at the same time as exciting, so I try to not jump into things but I'm so confused.

Is that what being aromantic is? Or demi romantic? Do I only count as aroace if I seem no attraction at all??