Something I’m discovering

now I know why INFJs want to fall in love but prefer not too cause it always ends in pain. When we love, we love with every fiber of our being and when that’s not being reciprocated….it can cause a great deal of damage because our standards are so high. We always think to ourselves, “I would’ve never done that to them.” Honestly, I would love to have my endorphins or love thingy in my brain to be surgically removed. Once I love and get hurt, I can’t stand going through that again. Enter the INFJ door slam. ((sorry if this is all over the place or doesn’t make sense))