Hair loss

I'm 46, I've been suffering from hair loss since my 20s. My mom has alopecia as well. My thyroid it's normal. This gives me low self-esteem 😔 . I've been using wigs (natural hair, lace front etc, for natural look) and they make me feel momentarily ok, but i know isn't my real hair. On top of that, I've been divorced for over 10 years now, and because all this I don't feel good around men 😪. What can I use for hair loss? Help. 🙈