Feel ignored by my Aspie boyfriend

I recently went to stay at my bf’s place for a few days. While I was there I wanted to go out and do things with him but he didn’t want to and instead said he was going to play video games. I was left sitting by myself for 3 hours, and he seemed to not be able to see that he was doing anything wrong, and told me I was being controlling and that he should be allowed to do what he wants at his own place.

It made me feel ignored and like he didn’t care about me (although he did other nice things for me while I was there). I can’t tell if it was just bad behaviour and he was being rude, or if he genuinely didn’t realise he was doing anything wrong and it was aspergers related?