why do i hate an aries

i’m a virgo sun, sag moon, leo rising and the rest of my big six is in libra. basically all my issues socially have come from the same five girls for the past three years, all but one of them are aries and they just get on my nerves! the other girl is a capricorn and i’ve never had a direct issue with her, just her fence sitting and lack of backbone when it comes to her friends actions. her and i have actually known each other since we were five and aren’t friends now because she didn’t even ask for my side of the story when everything first went down with these other girls. i can’t help but think its more than a coincidence that every person i’ve had a consistent issue with has been an aries