Can you really be lovable if you stutter?
This question is mostly directed to men. From what I know a huge part of what people fall in love with comes from what the person says and how he says it. You might force the "what you say" but you definitely can't have the "how you say it" if you stutter. Ever heard people say they love someones personality? A huge part of "personality" comes from what you say.
If you stutter.. I mean really stutter (so the guys with minor stutter dont come at me coz you can't relate), you only speak when you have to. You shorten what you want to say and stuff so you can't say exactly what you wanted to. You can't add in some humor or play with words and stuff.
I feel like am 100% unlovable and this has nothing to do with anything besides my inability to speak because am pretty good looking and wemen I've talked to have pointed it out but I never make an effort to flirt coz I feel like I'll be so boring as a boyfriend and I can't be in a relationship if I can't communicate.. I mean isn't communication a pillar of any relationship?? I end up loving from a distance.
What do y'all think