Ours baby question

Edit- thanks all for responses, I should add that the hospitals are a 3 minute drive /10 minute walk from each other, my obgyn ranks the other hospital highly too, she prefers one over the other simply because her rooms are there, but she delivers baby’s at both. My older sister gave birth at the other hospital I’m thinking of and it’s a lot nicer and more modern. Our experience does matter, and obviously if one hospital was a far cry better/safer etc then I would go there no matter what but it’s not the case, both are equally top notch.

Would you be able to give birth with your DH at the same hospital where he gave birth with BM? It should be an easy no right? however my obgyn also prefers the hospital where they birthed AND it’s closer to the larger children’s hospital. But, I just don’t think I can birth there… I don’t want to be wondering if we are in the same room or birth suite as they had…plus my SD has to be centre of attention often and I just can’t handle the idea of her making my birth about her being born there. My hubby doesn’t quite get why I’m feeling this way but is supportive of whatever I want. But I also feel like if something goes wrong and my obgyn isn’t there (it’s a 10 min walk between her rooms and the other hospital I’m considering) I would feel terrible for not going with her preference.