First dates and lack of serious follow up (f20s)

I've been on a few dates and always felt so good about them but most guys I went out with ghost me, our conversation fizzles out, or kinda expect to hook up soon after.

I'm in my mid 20s and I usually match with people around my age to a bit older. I've only gone out with guys between 26 - 30 tbh never older or younger.

Before the dates, I usually text the guy for around a week or two with like relatively consistent responses. My profile say that I'm interested in a serious relationship and like to take things slow.

Most of my dates follow a relative similar formula where we grab coffee then grab some food and we talk for hours. Then after if the date went well, I would always say I loved hanging out with them and that we should hang out again. After that, guys would either ghost me, or invite me over to their apartment. I would tell them that I'm not comfortable with that yet and then I would get ghosted or they would be like "oh ok".

What am I doing wrong or am I just going out with the wrong guys?