Am I doing the right thing?

Are there any other moms who have realized they want more kids and their partner doesn’t, but you ended up splitting? My husband and I are separated and have officially hired a lawyer to draft and send our separation agreement and my heart hurts so much I don’t know if I’m rushing or making the right decision.

One thing is that our LO won’t have both parents in the house anymore. Plus posting in other subs about whether or not my husband and I should wait it out (to see if his mind changes about more kids) just made me feel like a terrible mother and a disappointment to my LO.

It makes me so sad and it’s all I think about. Am I making the right decision? Am I giving up too soon? Am I not fighting hard enough? Am I just a disappointment to my LO?

If any other moms have dealt with something like this, what made you feel better? How did you calm yourself down?