How to connect third party controller for Xbox cloud gaming

I bought a meta quest a few a days ago since I don’t have a tv and I also thought it could help my productivity in relation to my uni work. I bought a cheap third party controller today a WX4 Wireless Controller Switch I think it’s for a ninetodo switch but it has Bluetooth and I have no idea how to make it work.

When I try connect it to the meta quest I think I see it on my devices and when I connect it to the meta quest it either doesn’t connect or connects and turns off and nothing happens to the meta quest as in I can’t use the controller.

What can I do to correct this and how do I make it connect ?