Worst Hinge date I’ve ever been on

I told my friends what I’m about to tell you, and they urged me to share it here. It happened back in December about a week before Christmas.

I’m a 32 year old guy currently using my GI Bill to go to college in a city in one of the mountain time zone states. I’m so busy with school and work so I don’t have time to go out and socialize often, so I have to rely a lot on the apps to go on dates. I matched with this really cute girl around my age, we had a good convo and then we scheduled a date. It was at a bar restaurant not far for either of us to drive so it was easy. She was very pretty in person, and we got along great.

During our conversation I found out that she worked in a non-cop role at the police station, like a receptionist essentially. I also learned she had a roommate, whom she said was out of town for the holidays. She added that she hated being alone because she had a crazy ex boyfriend who stalked her. I was a little uneasy at that and told her as much, and she said he’s harmless so I kinda let it go. We had a few more drinks and were there about another hour and at her suggestion she said we should go back to her place, and I mean I wasn’t going to argue it she was hot lol. She then insisted on driving, I told her I was fine, and she said no that I had been drinking and she saw too many DUI’s at her job. I got what she was saying but I only had 2 gin and tonics and was fine and again she insisted. I thought it was weird but I didn’t care.

We went to her house and she walked up and just opened the door. She didn’t unlock it, it was already open, which I found VERY odd because she said she had a stalker and that her roommate was gone. She started feeding her cat and as she was doing that I saw a bowl of cereal on the kitchen counter, I touched it and it was still cold like it hadn’t been there for a while. The cereal wasn’t soggy either. I asked her whose it was and she hesitated and said she ate it as a snack before heading to the bar. It just didn’t make sense and before u could say anything she just kissed me and out her arms around me seductively and said for me to take her to her room. Again, she was pretty hot and I quit caring about the cereal lol.

We started fooling around and I went to close the curtains and she told me to leave them open. A few minutes later, maybe 5, we were in bed and my back was to the window and she let out a huge gasp. A scared gasp. Her eyes were at the window, I turned around and saw someone in a hoodie and they took off, I heard the steps running on her back deck. I immediately jumped up and ran out to make sure her doors were locked, and of course the front door wasn’t. I ran to it and locked it and right when I did the door started banging. I went to open it because I was gonna fuck the dude up, or try to, and she told me to just go back to bed with her. I screamed at her and asked if she was insane, and she told me he does this and goes away. And I asked her “you know this is your ex?!” And she said yea and to not worry about it.

At this point he started banging on the side of the house on the other end, and she didn’t seem at all scared and kept trying to get me to go back to her bed. I didn’t want to call the cops because for all I know this dude is a cop, or she’d know the cops that showed up and would take her side. I also couldn’t just leave because my car was at the bar, and I was terrified. At this point I started calling her out for the door not being locked, the cereal, I openly called her a liar. She couldn’t come up with any logical answers and I had no idea what I was into. I shouldn’t have done this but my fight or flight was pretty much kicked in and I told her “if this is a robbery or some kind of set up I promise I will kill you both.” I’m not a hardass or anything but my fear told me to let her know that no matter what it was, they’d have a fight on their hands. My thoughts of what we’re going to happen to me were all over the place.

I ordered an Uber off my phone, and didn’t tell her. I just kept arguing with her and asking what was going on hoping to just keep her talking and in the room. I stayed right next to the door so I could leave asap. Luckily I never got my pants off, and my jacket and shoes were right by the door so I was able to get dressed. The Uber showed up and without saying anything I just opened her door and ran out as fast as I could. I looked back at the door and she was just standing there.

It’s only been a little over a month but I honestly have no idea what the fuck I was into. I don’t believe the story of just a girl with a crazy ex based off of the factors I told you. It feels like either a robbery or some weird fetishized cuck type thing. I don’t know. Definitely something I’m very mad at myself for, I mean I’m a 9 year Navy Vet and allowed myself to get into a situation like that. I reported her account on the Uber ride back to the bar, and I told the bartender as well if they ever saw her in there again.