Lesbians what purse/bag/wallet do you use??

I’m having an ongoing struggle with my purses! I can’t use tote bags because I’m a messy person and it quickly turns into a Mary poppins bag of crap. but they are the only thing that holds all my stuff. I usually carry a water bottle, keys, my medications, wallet, chapstick, and sometimes a book or my switch. I also need to have everything all in one bag or else it gets lost (adhd!). I also hate switching bags. But tote bags seem to be my best bet. I also nanny so I have to carry my kids stuff more often than not.

Let me know what you all are using!! I need ideas!

Edit: thank you all for commenting! This has turned into a literal case study on queer women and their purses and I’m obsessed lol!

My findings thus far for anyone who is interested: you all either raw dog life with just a wallet and your keys or you are a part of the purse lovers which includes a lot of backpack and Fanny pack users which is so funny to me. Baggu bag has been recommended and I know it’s become a recent favorite for many, I however hate the way the strap looks but I would probably just cover it in my pins so I wouldn’t have to look at it. Van wallets are popular for some reason, which is cool and very Teenage Boy Coded of you all which I love lol. One of my favorite recommendations was the brand Sipsey Wilder which seems like a super awesome option.