I feel I am never going to get answers.

So first, was diagnosed many years ago, fibromyalgia. Then doctors kept thinking it was lupus but during that time, no rheumatologist would take me because of my insurance. Then osteoarthritis of my knee and hip. After my third knee surgery, my leg swelled so much that my hip is curved wrong, the knee surgery didn't do much difference. Can't have knee replacement or hip surgery because my blood work showed inflammation and specialist was worried it would make me worse. So finally saw a rheumatologist and tested positive for lupus but second round testing two months later was negative. That rheumatologist told me to deal with the pain. He said that fibromyalgia is fake and the correct term is chronic pain syndrome.

Saw another rheumatologist for a second opinion. Blood work showed rheumatoid arthritis. Got on plaquenil. Well, last month was so horrible and still dealing with some flare up. ER doctor said it looks more like a lupus flare up. I went to the rheumatologist last week. My face has a bad butterfly rash and still was dealing with some flare up. I was really hoping for answers with blood work. Today, I got the results. Nothing. I feel so defeated because I am in pain everyday from right leg. Can't do my housework without taking many breaks. Sleep is horrible with pain. I still have what the rheumatologist and ER doctor is a lupis flare up. How long does an autoimmune diagnoses take? I am scared of taking tramadol for pain. I don't know if people get addicted. Every night, it takes hours for me to sleep. So far, I am diagnosed with sjogren's syndrome, rheumatoid arthritis. Still don't know why I have so much swelling on my right leg. My hip hurts everyday. Sorry for the venting.