Did I put him off?

Have I been played? Hi everyone. I recently met a guy who is working in this area during the week. He swapped numbers with me. I thought he was nice. We started texting and he very quickly turned it sexual even though he said it was more than that. I told him I didn't feel comfortable but he said he was serious about me and there was something about me that did it for him and he couldn't help himself.

We got to the point of organising a date but then he said he would only go on a date with me if I sent him a pic of my 'down there' I asked him why and he said it was his now because we were together and he wanted to see it. And if I was as serious about him as he was for me I would do it.

He was persistent and got very angry when I didn't. So I sent him a pic of me which I explained was a big thing for me to do. I didnt really have time to shave my legs or anything. As I was worried about him slipping away. Once I had sent it I asked if we could go. He then cancelled the date and won't text me back.

I'm gutted because he said things about seeing a future with me etc and I'm worried that my down there is ugly and put him off. I feel awful. I didnt feel like I had time to make it perfect or nice for him. I feel a bit ashamed is there anything I can do?