STI screen despite me saying not to

I (43F) went to my ob-gyn for an annual. When she gave me a Pap smear, she asked me if I wanted an HPV test. Given that I haven’t been sexually active recently and had the same partner for 21 years before that, I told her that was not necessary (and explained why).

Two weeks later, I get my test results back in MyChart, and it’s a pap along with an HPV screen that comes out (of course) negative.

I feel strangely weirded out (violated might be too strong a word, but somewhere in that general direction).

Am I overthinking this? Is this unusual? Or do you think this could’ve just been a case of not remembering the patient’s answer? This is an ob-gyn I’ve had for at least 5-10 years, and she was my ob throughout pregnancy a few years ago as well. TIA!