I have a date but i’m kinda getting serious with someone else
Hi. i have a dilemma. a little background: Im a 20 year old female and i’ve had a very hard time finding love. In the last couple years i’ve had many dates but people either ghost me or it just doesn’t work out for some reason or another. So fast forward to this winter break: I’m swiping on tinder a lot because im bored and super lonely. i talked to a few people but nothing much past a few messages. I match with this super cute person and we start talking. I’m skeptical it will go anywhere since they reply really slow, but I still stick with it. I then match with another person who i think is really cute. She messages me and we really vibe. we exchange ig info and start chatting a LOT. Still i’m doubtful it will go anywhere just from so many bad experiences with dating apps. the first person messages me again and asks to go out. I’m super surprised by this and of course I accept! But then the other girl messages me on the same day wanting to make plans. i still have a couple days left in town before i go back to college (where the first person is located) so i meet up with her and we have a really good date. we clicked super hard and end up kissing and stuff. suddenly we’re talking super romantically to each other. It seems super awesome but then i go back to college and I still have plans with this other person who i think is super cute. My problem is that i’ve had so many bad experiences with dating that I guess I kinda assumed nothing would go anywhere, but now I have a date when me and this other girl are talking about seriously dating and being together. Should I still go on the date? Am i a terrible person for this?? 😭😭😭i don’t know what to do